I joined DaddyHunt.com 2 summers ago after seeing an ad at the Eagle. I thought it would be all hot, older bear/otter guys. There were a few, but… well, let’s just say I never actually met up with anyone from the site and stopped using it after a couple of months. Every few months or so, I get an email from DaddyHunt, but I don’t recall anything called a virtual grope.
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I just wish the picture had loaded in the email. Yes, I have a yahoo account. Sue me.
In actual grope-related news, Friday marks the half-way mark in the 10-week Beach-Body Workout Plan. I’ll have to remember to take some up the weights b/c this shit isn’t working fast enough progress pics.
Totally unrelated, I had a very awkward moment that wasn’t so sober on Saturday night. I was in an elevator with Bologna and about 5 other people on the way to a house party. I think someone coughed or talked about throwing up (fuzzy memory but it was some action that would have spread a cold). I laughed and said something like, “Oh great, now everyone has AIDS.” Bologna stopped, glared at me, and said, “Dude, that’s totally not funny.” I took it down a notch and admitted, “You’re right dude. That was totally inappropriate to say.” . o O (But did you have to call me out like that in front of people?)
I didn’t give it (or anything else) much thought that night, but today, I was thinking about the awkwardness of the situation. I’m kind of glad that Bologna called me out the way he did. I wouldn’t say to go around and correct people in front of crowds: it’s not a very wise way to keep friends*. But it was definitely not cool for me to make a statement like that, drunk or not. And someone in the elevator may have learned at my expense, something of which I’m often an advocate. 'I wasn't thinking' is an oft-used excuse, but really, I should have been thinking.
So props to that bitch for being so bold because one never knows who has just recently or ever [insert awful consequence] to [insert stigmatized condition]. I’m usually more sensitive than that, and it’s something to which I should have paid more attention.
*I'm glad Bologna had the balls to call me on that. It was kind of embarrassing, but unless he made a major judgement that night, we'll continue as we were before.
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